We start to grow our ambitions and we set up new objectives for ourselves. We are teenagers and children and we compromise between what our parents need us to do and what we actually desire to do.
We pursue our objectives that are laid out for us by our authority figures and when we get them the aspects that are left for us in the pursuit of our own personal objectives and we have our internal motivation.
To get to our individual objectives one feels very nice. When we do not succeed to get them, we can deal with a great blow to our egos. This failure is generally considered individual and it makes us question our own aspects.
Each life is filled with some failures and some are very intense. Some of them are precious lessons but the failures can make us feel very week and discouraged. We want to begin the experience and this may be very sad. It impacts how we actually behave and it may prevent us from being contented.
We feel immensely stressed due to some self-doubt that we experience. These issues are not beyond our alternatives and you may get past this weakness just one step at one time.
You have to know to accept yourself and provide yourself some great credit
You have to be aware that each trait you have can be seen from both a positive and a negative aspect. When you think yourself to be determined, other people can think of this trait as a kind of stubborn behavior. In case you are ambitious, other people can perceive the call that you are greedy and they can mention that you lack some ambition.
Some people can think that trait as minor paranoia. It relies on the content and situation in which you displayed your individual traits. It also relies on your environment and if you are ready to reward those traits or to lessen them.
We actually have our own vision of ourselves and other people have got varied thoughts. The fact is in between. You do not have to take criticism in a serious way and not be absorbed all the time. You can accept yourself and work on the mistakes that you want to eradicate. You have to leave the aspect that you can be someone and all the people will appreciate you and concentrate on being a person that you would want to be.